adrimnzr/hrmnzr is an active sexual abuser
she has also gone by the urls paigeirl and navkatze
in february i made a callout post about adrimnzr’s past creepy behavior towards some of my friends, and her problem with placing her friends and partners (mostly minors, overwhelmingly DFAB people) in uncomfortable sexual situations against their wishes. these include:
-repeatedly asking for nude pictures, to the point of harassment
-making explicit sexual comments about nonsexual selfies
-asking for people to engage in sexual acts for her over skype
-suddenly and without warning engaging in sexual acts herself over skype
-sending nudes unsolicited
-threatening suicide when told she was acting inappropriately or rebuffed by a crush
i have talked to around 15 people who have been sexually harassed by adrimnzr. by adrimnzr’s own admission, she successfully got nudes out of around 15 people, and only about 3 of the people who talked to me actually sent nudes. there are still many many people out there that adrimnzr has harassed that likely think they’re alone. some of these people were in relationships with her at the time, some were simply friends, some were even complete strangers when the harassment began. an example of the type of harassing messages adrimnzr would send are included below:
i have also talked to someone that adrimnzr manipulated and sexually abused physically, in person. i don’t have the ok to post their testimony publicly, but i do know that adrimnzr has acted sexually abusively both online and offline.
after posting my original callout, i kept in contact with adrimnzr for about a week because i was worried about her potentially hurting herself. she emotionally manipulated me into believing that reporting her abuse to the police would put her in physical danger. adrimnzr has since threatened me with suicide for confronting her.
a month or so after confronting adrimnzr about her abuse, i got a message from someone adrimnzr has harassed, saying adrimnzr had told them she herself was “harassed off of tumblr” and, not believing that was the whole story, had to search around for the callout on their own.
earlier this week i got in contact with someone adrimnzr has been harassing up until this march. i confronted her about her abusive behavior in february.
with all this in mind, i’ve come to the conclusion that 1) adrimnzr is trying to dodge the consequences of her past abuse by pretending she was never confronted about it and 2) adrimnzr is most likely still sexually abusing people.
she is currently running an indiegogo for her music project, PISS SPEARS. she has one tumblr account that she is actively using (that i know of), though there are no posts on it. she is currently most active on twitter and soundcloud. i know of a handful of her (DMAB) musician friends that have seen fit to continue associating with her and giving her the benefit of the doubt despite me warning them multiple times about her continued abuse.
if you know anyone who’s associated with adrimnzr, either currently or anytime over the past 4 years, please pass this on to them. if you’ve been harassed by adrimnzr or know someone who has been, please please talk to me, I am here to listen. if you’re reading this, adrimnzr: do not contact me, i have absolutely nothing to say to you, and you have nothing you can say to say to me.
i don’t think i approve w/ the use of dmab to refer to the people who have continued associating with her since by what little i have seen since breaking off ties w/ her they’re mostly cis men and not transfeminine people, so, you know, but yeah i worked with/for melanie stanley for years before i knew the full extent of her sexual abuse+manipulation of other people (although i had inklings and tried to call her out privately, and was predictably lied to about everything) and she’s an exceedingly dangerous person, you should really steer clear. i’m going to try and spread this info to twitter too since that seems to be a place where she’s successfully avoiding retribution for her actions. i would like to thank tumblr user pachydermous for making the post that made me aware of melanie’s predatory actions in the first place, as well as for continuing to warn people about her.
there’s plenty of receipts here and this is pretty important so i would encourage everyone who can to read and reblog. thank you
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After a long and arduous printing process, DRAMAtical Murder stickers are finally available right here in my online shop!!!
First three orders will get a FREE bonus sticker!
We have Aoba, Clear, Noiz, Ren, other Ren, Sei, Koujaku and Tae currently, so come check them out! Just $2 a sticker!
A rain spirit!! thinking of entering a mascot contest in a little while and this guy’s one of the concepts i might submit?
Dramatical Murder stickers that will be in stock in a day or two! I’ll post an announcement when they’re up in my store so watch out for it!
A year ago I wrote a letter to myself and when I opened that letter today it was just a bunch of drawings of this bean-shaped cat
Hey folks!! The Inkse (/Ink Sea) brand t-shirt store is now back up and running on designbyhumans, despite being run largely by chaotic inhuman masses (shhh, don’t tell on us)! We got all the old favorites in the store and I’m going to be adding new stuff soon, so check it out over here when you have the time!
A lot of the products are also available as cool stuff like phone cases! Also I’m pretty sure ordering stuff is less expensive when you’re a DBH user, so make sure to look into that before buying! Have a great day <3 <3